Things Unsaid

by Monday, August 29, 2016 0 comments


You know when you've left an issue for too long and it becomes too awkward to address it? For example, when you get introduced to someone for the first time and then you instantly forget it. Of course, you don't ask them for their name again, because that's too awkward.

When you don't resolve an argument with a friend.
When you find the small flaws grow to become too big
When you don't return a call. 
When you leave things unsaid. 
When we don't say problems and just keep it to ourselves. 

 You want to say something about that something. Yet you don't, to preserve what you have.

Yeah, that feeling sucks.

And eventually it all becomes normal. All the things that was left unsaid becomes the status quo. 

Then you go on with your friendship. And you're like, well we can't talk about that anymore. Then the next problem comes up. And you don't really want to talk about that because it's too much like the first problem. And the circle of things-you-don't-talk-about grows a little. Then it happens again.

And then you lose something more than just that initial small circle. The circle becomes to big to squash back down anymore.

We know that we should put a stop to it. Fix it before it gets out of hand

~TastyJack~


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